Top 10
Why is it that I can help people get together in a relationship but I can create one of my own? When I finally do get into one it crashes down like the world trade center crushing my heart. No matter how much I try I cannot find someone that I like and stay with them, or when I find someone I like and am willing to fight for, for a long time doesn’t want to be with me. Well I think people’s views on girls are all wrong! High school kids and all their in love stuff truly don’t know what it means to be in love. What do you look for in a Girl? Or even a male (ladies)? Here are the top 10 things I look for to help people or even my self in a relationship.
10. Parents
9. Voice
8. Fighting (no or yes)
7. Jokes (inside)
6. What she thinks of me!
5. How much I know
4. Time spent
3. Personality
2. Comfort
1. Eyes
These are my top 10 things I look for! What are yours? I think they work for most people but not me. I do not understand why either. When someone uses the other person is like “aww how sweet”, but when I use it they are just like “oh it is just Nate”, I don’t not understand at all! Please leave comments on your top 10 things you look for in a guy or girl and tell me what I am doing wrong! Why won’t the girl I like take this as being sincere and not just Nate?
posted by Lavern @ 10:44 AM
3 Comments:
At February 18, 2008 at 11:09 AM ,
Anonymous said...
I think they say that because a lot of things you aren't very serious about (friends wise, and it's not a bad thing either), let her know you're serious. If she refuses to believe that well then... I don't know what you can do if she does that. All I can say is sit her down, tell her how you feel, that you are serious and that you want her to know. Don't try too hard (I have that problem... heh) Hopefully she can see you have good intentions. Good luck!
And now the list for me.
1. Eyes
2. Compassionate
3. Personality
4. How well they know me
5. Inside jokes
6. Voice
7. Playful/flirty
8. Pets (corny but hey... they count)
9. Geeky-ness
10. Parents/friends
At February 18, 2008 at 11:46 AM ,
Anonymous said...
Well I really don't have a top 10 thing for this. All I can say it that I look for someone who likes me for who I am, someone who won't disown my family. I want to be with someone who wants to be with me. Someone who can love me for who I am.
I would have to agree with jake. Just try and sit her down and tell her how you really feel. If she doens't believe or listen to you....then maybe she is not the right one. I guess that is all I can tell you!
At February 19, 2008 at 10:54 AM ,
Ali(solation) said...
I think Jake is on the spot. But only some girls will take it the way that you want them too. Sitting down and talking should be good for everyone. But not all girls have the same perspective on relationships. Well as you know none of them do. Why do us girls have to be difficult? That's my question, I always here girls saying why are guys so hard to figure out, when really I feel worse for the guys. Because girls are the ones that actually look into everything in a relationships and turns all the little things into a big deal. It's nonsense. It's always the little things that make the difference. I don't know exactly what I'm getting at but I guess I would try to talk to her. unless you know she doesn't want to hear it.
I'm not sure what I look for in a guy. But I know that if I look at him and can like him and not have any dislikes that he's prefect.
There's always something different in a guy for me that I don't like or don't agree with. But if there isn't he's just my type!
I would have too say some good things would be:
I'm comfortable around him
He get's along with my friends
He makes me laugh (not hard to do)
Smart
Aware of whats going on around him
Balance's out his life with school work, friends, and family
NOT OBSESSIVE
Loyalty (that means no cheating)
That he equally like's me back and respects my decision's...
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